When someone don't know about anything that had happened,
They refused to change their mind.
So strongly they refused.
No matter how hard we tried.

Yet, once they know about the truth,
They might changed their opinion.

The first thing that struck in our mind is,
"Why do they changed it?"
"Are they pitying in me?"
That are what our normal reactions are.

It's okay to suspect.
But, why don't you try looking this word 'pity' from another completely different view than what you used to?

Even if that is so,
There's nothing wrong with pitying, isn't it?

Because,
Pitying is taking other's pain and sadness,
And treating it as your own.

So, shouldn't we be thanking that person instead?